i'm feeling much better today, though still ill, so i shall start to detail what happened at my sister's big day yesterday.
by right, i was supposed to wake up at 5:30, to help prepare stuff, and my sis was to wake at 4am, to do all the combing hair stuff. But the videographer and photographer made so much noise that i woke up too.
At around 6:30, all the preparations were done and we were waiting for the groom to come.
At 7, the groom arrived downstairs, and my brother, as the elder son, went downstairs to open the car door for him.
I had to hide inside my room, because apparently i was born in the year of the horse, which somehow clashes with the groom on that particular day, so i missed the best part, the gate-crashing games.
This pic below is just one of the tasks that the groom was required to do. write down 10 promises to my sister. As i understand, some other task was drinking pure lime juice, herbal tea, eating sugar and prawn crackers with wasabi on it. He also had to put on disposal underwear over his pants and stuff like that.

Soon after, he got in and lifted my sister's veil and did all the prayer stuff (i'm not too sure cuz i was still in the room) then they left (They includes my sister, her husband, and their 6 "brothers" and 4 "sisters") for the grooms house for breakfast and did the tea serving ceremony.
They returned here at 11 where they did another tea serving ceremony for my parents this time.
Then we had a buffet lunch, first time i saw so many people at my house, around 50. everyone had to stand. My cousin from Liverpool, Paul, told me he had kept his promise and bought me my Spurs jersey =D
Around 2pm, the relatives went home, and we went to parkroyal hotel where we rested till 4:45, before proceeding to the poolside to be the witnesses for their solemnisation (HOTTEST PART OF THE DAY! Blazer + long sleeves + tie + hot weather = insane)
At 5:30 i sat at the reception in front of the Emerald hall with Yi Yong, the groom's brother, Pei pei and grace (my sister's sec sch friends). We were responsible for directing the guests to their tables, obviously i was in charge of the bride-side relatives. Yi yong was in charge of the groom-side relatives and pei pei and grace were in charge of the friends or colleagues.
At 7:30, the dinner started, which was late, it was supposed to start at 7. Started late cuz my uncle was late -.-
Anyways, yup, for the first time, i sat at the VIP table with the immediate families.
Watched the video montage of the story of my sis and her husband, etc etc..
Went home at 12. Watched spurs lose to man u, then slept.